Thank you to everyone who wished me a happy birthday!!!

ive never washed rice a day in my life we should kiss

my friend liz had her spotify account hacked and literally didn’t realize for a year until I was talking about my decade in review playlist and she looked at hers and it was all brazilian music and she was like oh this explains why I would go to sleep listening to classical music and wake up and it’s playing trap. and also why there are like 30 playlists on my account that I didn’t make. she just thought spotify was like that

hand to god at some point my friend liz managed to fuck up her install of Portal so bad that it was displaying minecraft textures

HELP WHATIS THIS 💀💀💀this app needs to be deleted off the App Store 😭😭

... fuck it I've had enough of this bullshit

Just because some men are bad doesn't mean:

Men don't deserve sympathy

Women are saints

Misandry doesn't EXIST

And also!

For the last fucking time

I didn't say it was a big problem

I didn't say it was equal to misogyny

I Just said

It

EXISTS

Should have just left it like this 😍😍😍

I hate existing.

Yup, all men suck. My male psychiatrist who helped me and my family get the meds we needed? How dare he.

And don’t forget my brother, that awful man who... ugh, helped me get a job. Gross.

Oh and my dad, that nasty, nasty therapist who sincerely wants to help people and has raised me well? Mmm, a sinner.

Too personal? I’m biased toward my family? What about some of the male teachers I’ve had? Theatre teacher pushing me to improve? Science teacher indulging and encouraging my curiosity? My psych teacher who gave us all gentle encouragement? All cancelled.

(if you couldn’t tell, that’s sarcasm)

I always find it funny when people say misandry doesn’t exist. Personally hating a group of people doesn’t make them exempt from being susceptible to abuse. In fact, believing that misandry isn’t real because you hate or dislike men is the textbook definition of misandry.

It is, perhaps, hard for people, especially those who have been abused by men, to grasp that men can in fact be abused or discriminated against. This is understandable. One hates to think someone who has hurt them can also be hurt. Hate is blinding. It is also wrong.

Generic, catch-all statements used to define every man in the world— all men are evil, all men are abusers, all men are rapists— is discrimination. It’s textbook prejudice. It’s textbook bias. It conveniently ignores, also, the potential for women to abuse.

Women are not saints. Women are not exempt from being abusers because they are commonly abused. To pretend otherwise is to perpetuate a never ending cycle of abuse, bias, and discrimination towards men. Otherwise known as misandry.

The second thing this attitude does is it lacks men the ability to change. Do you want men to get better, as a whole? Do you want them to stop being rapists and abusers and terrible men? Do you really care, when you’ve already decided what they are?

Misandrists are ignorant. Ignorant of men, of their issues, of the complexity of patriarchy and maleness in general. If it’s unpleasant for you to *genuinely* hear not all men (minus those reactionary strawman tweets that people defensively post), hear the complexity of abuse and discrimination towards men, maybe you should do a little soul searching and figure out why.

It might be the misandry.

Edit: This is tumblr so it needs to be said: leave sweetlimeharvest alone. Please do not flood their inbox or dms or submissions. Literally block and move on. Their inbox is not your argument spot. That is not the way minds are changed.

cultural appropriation

Oh no…..they got corporate twitter in on it…….literal hell world…….